" So plant your own gardens and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. "
Jorge Luis Borges (via bokura)(Source: takemetothemtn, via dipshiit)
" IMPORTANT NOTE ON RESISTANCE:
If at any point a girl wants you to stop, she will let you know. If she says “STOP,” or “GET AWAY FROM ME,” or shoves you away, you know she is not interested. It happens. Stop escalating immediately and say this line:
“No problem. I don’t want you to do anything you aren’t comfortable with.”
Memorize that line. It is your go-to when faced with resistance. Say it genuinely, without presumption. All master seducers are also masters at making women feel comfortable. You’ll be no different. If a woman isn’t comfortable, take a break and try again later.
Of course if you’re really unclear, back off. Better safe than sorry. "
If at any point a girl wants you to stop, she will let you know. If she says “STOP,” or “GET AWAY FROM ME,” or shoves you away, you know she is not interested. It happens. Stop escalating immediately and say this line:
“No problem. I don’t want you to do anything you aren’t comfortable with.”
Memorize that line. It is your go-to when faced with resistance. Say it genuinely, without presumption. All master seducers are also masters at making women feel comfortable. You’ll be no different. If a woman isn’t comfortable, take a break and try again later.
Of course if you’re really unclear, back off. Better safe than sorry. "
Tofu, the “author” of Above the Game, a guide to sexually assaulting women, in his own words, “clarifies” what he meant to say in his book. He meant to say: If a girl tells you no, go away, but come back later. Keep harassing her. Keep doing exactly what she asked you not to do - because that’s what a master manipulator seducer does. Don’t listen to her or worry about her safety at all. After all, you’re just trying to get laid.
Paraphrase, of course. The full text rebuttal is here.
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And if she’s too scared to say stop? Because if a woman says that shit, she runs the risk of GETTING KILLED. If I tell a man “leave me alone” he runs a goddamn tirade about how I’m a bitch, causes a scene and makes me fear for my safety.
So are these men going to actually notice about body language and how she’s trying to make herself smaller so he’ll go away? Of course not. They’re going to take her being silent, her trying to text or listen to music as a sign of TRY HARDER until she’s intimidated enough to finally relent and let him have what he wants so he won’t hurt her.
I a not here for this jackass. Not at all.
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My response to a racist and ignorant post (top picture) that I saw on Facebook.
The following are all examples of peoples whose livelihoods were destroyed by European settlement or conquest. Most of these “neighborhoods” are discussed more in depth in the Racism: A History series that can be found for free on YouTube which was ironically done by the BBC.
*All the photos are captioned*
Well said, good sir.
Thank you @cannotfixstupid!
Picture captions for people viewing on mobile:
1. Dumbass picture I found on racist Facebook group.
2. Picture of the last full blooded Tasmanian family.
3. Pictures of women and children who were punished for the men in the families not meeting rubber quotas in Belgian occupied Congo Free State.
4. Picture of a woman who was made to walk the Trail of Tears.
5. A depiction of one of the many famines that ruined Indian communities when their agricultural systems were changed to grow cash crops for export to England.
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have i been listening to the mr. resetti theme from animal crossing for the past 10 minutes
